Frequently Asked Questions
What is coaching?
Coaching is where we engage in a co-creative relationship.
Me: bringing deep listening, empathetic presence, powerful questions, support, accountability, and a safe, courageous, and creative place.
You: bringing your self and your best intentions
We: collaborating with all of our resources of intelligence, imagination, creativity, and curiosity to help navigate you through the challenges of midlife for a more fulfilling second half.
Is coaching therapy?
No. I’m not a trained therapist or counselor. Though my sessions will involve some work on your past, my job is to have both empathy and motivation to get you moving forward.
Is coaching consulting?
No. Although my free content will supply you with methods and tools that have helped me, my coaching is about creating a safe environment for presence, creativity, and curiosity where I help you create the life you want.
Who do you work with?
I primarily work with creative men navigating midlife transitions — writers, artists, musicians, and creators who feel blocked or disconnected from their creative purpose. But the focus is not on fixing your art, but on helping you rediscover what’s already within you in order for you to flourish.
Do you only work with men?
While my primary focus is on men’s development, I welcome anyone who resonates with the principles of Solitude Work™ — self-reflection, creative renewal, and personal meaning. The deeper goal is human wholeness, not gender exclusivity.
What happens in a typical session?
Each session is a focused conversation exploring where you are, what’s emerging, and what needs to shift. We use reflection, journaling, and small, meaningful actions to create forward movement. Every session ends with clarity and one practical step.
Is this a men’s rights or anti-women organization?
Not at all. My work focuses on helping men rediscover meaning and creativity — which in turn fosters more authentic, compassionate relationships with everyone in their lives.
What kind of results can I expect?
You’ll gain your authentic self. You’ll have the confidence and the courage that comes from knowing who you because you listened to who you are. And since the answers come from you, you can move into the world with self-awareness, curiosity, presence, and intention.
If you’re interested in getting the help you need, click on the button below to book a Zoom chat and see if we’re a match.